Trading Places

Twenty-three years after caring for a friend, the roles are reversed. Full-time caretaker Nidia Riley has lived with and cared for her long-time friend, Ann Williams for the past seven years. Ann and Nidia were first introduced 30 years ago at a church service in Bowling Green, Ky.

When Nidia became pregnant with her last child 23 years ago, she had surgery and was away from home at the hospital. Ann stepped in and began caring for Nidia’s family.

“She helped raised my children,”Nidia said. “I don’t know what I would have done without her at that point in my life.” It brings tears to Nidia’s eyes to describe her friendship with Ann over the years.

Several years ago Ann was diagnosed with dementia and Nidia stepped up to take care of her. “She took care of me and now I will take care of her,” Nidia said. “It doesn’t matter how long; I’m with her until she dies.” Ann’s memory has faded greatly and she has forgotten how to speak and interact with people.

Even the most basic of tasks are a challenge for Ann. Nidia goes the extra mile to make sure Ann remembers as much as she can, often giving her small tasks to help around the house and throughout the day. Nida and Ann attend church each day and are involved in a number of activities to keep Ann’s mind busy.

Trading Places – Images by Daniel Houghton